Amazing

T'was sitting in service today and towards the end of PD's sermon, he said about how some people might be complaining about cell group or fellowship was boring and what not. And that caught my attention as it is so true with some people. It's not what fellowship or cell group can do for you but what you want it to be and what you want it to do for God. This sorta leads back to PD's past sermon on spiritual porkers, where we should move away from being self focused and to be God focused in our lives. God didn't create Man to love himself but we're to love God with all our heart, soul, mind and strength.

On another note: a thought has been swimming in my head and it has something to do with courtship or wooing I suppose...

How would one go about getting the attention of a member of the opposite sex? And is it important that the feeling is mutual and reciprocated?

Would it be as a friend where you would just hang out and get to know one another? Being there for one another.

Or,

Where the person of interest is being viewed as an object of affection or lust; the friendship is bought through gifts and kindness is displayed for ulterior motives and is justified as a means to an end? How does this affect the relationship? both with the other person and with God?